First Date – Your Wardrobe Says it All, Boys!

First of all, you are not too cool, too hot, or too intelligent the make an effort to dress nicely for a first or any date.  There is no reason why any guy should ever turn up to a date looking as though he just rolled out of bed.  This applies even if you met via online dating matchmaking or any dating service whatsoever.  Sadly though, many guys make the exact mistake of thinking that just because she agreed to go out with you, the ball can stop there.

This is so very wrong!  Females judge quickly and those judgments tend to stick.  If you show up looking like you don’t even want to be there, she will immediately assume that you don’t want to be with her, and then why would you have asked her out in the first place?  Don’t crush all the effort you have already put in by asking her out and arranging the date, by messing up one of the most important factors – how you look!

Perhaps this sounds shallow, but really, who wants to go out with someone who doesn’t want to make any effort for them?  Again, this very much applies to you even if you have done webcam in a dating web site or used online dating agencies.  If I may assume that you like the lucky lady and you do want the date to go well, then I will share this gem with you:  show it!

Never, ever don a baseball cap and sneakers as though you are on your way to some frat party, particularly if you have been out of college for more than three weeks!  Dress for your age, and what you will be doing – a sunset walk on the beach or dinner-and-a-movie will be well suited to a nice pair of jeans and a T-shirt that says something about the real you (e.g. your favorite band or a funny cartoon) and gives you talking points.

So do think about what you are wearing; if in doubt, a plain black T with jeans is a clean, classy, confident way to go.