Mistakes Men Make on First Dates

It’s painful, really. You have gone to all the effort of braving up to ask her out, even if it was at the hands of cupid online dating, secured the “yes!” and arranged the whole date. But there is a fundamental mistake that you can make at this point that can completely remove any chance of that date turning into a second, and you can forget about anything more, past the online dating chat room.

As crazy hard as getting the date is, the real test is the date itself! Too many men muck up the chance of a second date by assuming that, “She said yes, my part is done! No more effort needed from me!” I tell you, if I heard you say that, I would give you a whack you on the nose with a rolled-up newspaper. So very, very wrong!

The major mistake that men make on the first date is not thinking about what is being said before you even open your mouth – by your clothes! Turning up looking like you have just rolled out of bed or as though you are just stopping by on route to a frat party or a keg is not the way to say that you want to be there!

As females, we will assume that you don’t want to be there, or indeed, with us, if that is how you look. But if you think about the activities you will be doing on the date (dinner, movies, romantic sunset beach walks) and dress appropriately for those activities – as well as your age and body type – then we see that you have made an effort.

And frankly, considering the time that we don’t want you to know that we spend on our outfit, makeup and hair; consider yourselves lucky that all you need to think about is looking like the nice, clean, comfortable and confident man you are! Leave the online dating website behind and get real with yourself!