Women don’t like being objectified. We don’t like being belittled, and we don’t like being mocked. This is particularly the case in frre online dating environments, and with online speed dating. Don’t make fun of us! It really is rather simple, and yet so many guys make the mistake of trying to put on a show of bravado by immediately distancing themselves with a cheesy one-liner they got from a bad late-night made for TV movie. Also, we don’t respond to guys who make a negative or self-deprecating remark like “You will probably say no, but …” or “I shouldn’t bother, but …”
Such approaches don’t work any more than, “Did you lose your halo when you fell from heaven?”
Women like confidence, humour, intelligence, and a genuine unique personality. You don’t have to be the funny guy or the cool guy or the smart guy. You just need to be yourself, and if your immediate thought upon reading that was, “Well, that hasn’t worked yet,” then maybe you have been trying too hard with pick up lines and such. Rehearsed lines will never make a girl weak at the knees, unless you are Irish, in which case, say whatever you want and we will swoon.
So next time you are trying to pluck up the courage to approach a woman, even if it through the top 10 online dating services, remember that she is single, too. She is probably nervous, too. And if you can just be yourself, you may just surprise yourself with yourself.
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